This weekend my daughter will make the transition she’s been waiting two years to make. She will officially be a member of our church’s middle school youth department. The same daughter who wouldn’t leave my side for the first 7 or 8 years of her life will walk victoriously into the three year future she’s been dreaming of. And I know she won’t turn around to say, “See ya, Mom.”
But I’m okay with it. I mean, if she was still clinging to my skirts and crying when I left her somewhere . . . . . well, that would be unhealthy.
So while I’m reminiscing, here are some fun little tidbits from Amber’s life.
- She used to say “bonnet” instead of “bottom.” Sit on your bonnet, Mommy!
- When she was about three she told me she was going to marry Daddy. I told her I was already married to him. She threw her arms up, threw herself on the ground and wailed, “What I am I going to do NOW????”
- I fed her peanuts and she had to have surgery.
- She hates coconut.
- She loves all animals . . . . unless they’re ugly (she just told me this the other day).
- Pink is her color. End of story.
- I do highlights in her hair.
- She told me recently “you’re my best friend. And you’re also my mom.”
So carry on, my dear. I promise not to be one of those moms who suddenly “feels the Lord calling her” to work in the middle school youth group. Nor will I suddenly “feel led” (or have my arm twisted by the youth pastor) to go on every single activity you’ll be on. I trust you and I love you. And you have well-earned some freedom.
So while it pinches just a little bit at the corners of my heart, I’m so happy to see the young lady you’ve become.
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